talking together

Every person or couple that comes to me has a different reason. If I had to sum up those reasons, people describe what they are seeking as relationship, physical intimacy, sex, self-image and love. The words they use for what is missing are fun, freedom, happiness, fulfilment, self-expression and joy.

When I ask what stops them, they use words that point to shame, specific past trauma, fear and self-loathing. Mostly we don’t even know what stops us, or can even acknowledge we are stopped. Without our intimate needs being fulfilled or even acknowledged, we live a life half-lived.

To move past where we are stuck is as simple, and as challenging, as conversation. For just under an hour, we sit in a quiet intimate space and I listen and we speak. Through conversation, creating a meaningful intimate life is absolutely possible and absolutely does happen. There is no recipe nor ’10 step program’ to provide instant results (sorry!). What I can promise is to support you in finding your way; one person with the map, and the other person with the light. Between us, we can navigate to your fully expressed intimate and sexual self.