Life is not all about sex however it could be said that for most of us our satisfaction in life, our enjoyment, the meaning we find, is centred in our capacity to create and maintain intimate relationships. When intimacy is missing it can seem the most important thing in the world is gone from our lives. And yet few of us have an understanding of exactly how to get, and keep, this life-sustaining intimacy. If only these techniques, this way of living and being, were taught in schools and homes!
It’s not a new idea that self-acceptance and open, honest communication are key ingredients of a healthy intimate relationship. ‘Knowing’ is however not the same as having it happen in your life in a way that moves you towards the connections you need to be profoundly satisfied. We all need support and informed advice at some time point in our lives to overcome barriers which, for many of us, may have been in place for a long time. Others may just be wanting expert help to fast-track through a challenging period.
By working together, we believe that intimate connection is possible for all of us, no matter what may seem to be standing in the way.
At Ros Bowyer Consulting we work in non-judgemental ways with people who are looking to develop their capacity for intimate relationship. This may be because your current ways are not getting you enough of what you want and need, or that you are tired of always being the ‘giver’ and not ‘getting’ much back, perhaps that you have a growing sense that you are missing out on the juice of life, that there must be more, or maybe even just that you are a life-long learner and want to learn more about how to deeply and profoundly connect and create a more dynamic, powerful life.
Whatever it is, and whatever sort of relationship you’re in or drawn to, we can work with you. For some this is mainstream, for others not so much. We are a safe place to bring your questions and your yearnings; it brings us great joy to support you towards deeper fulfilment.
We use an integrative holistic approach in therapy, incorporating clinical, psychotherapeutic, spiritual, ontological and coaching trainings.